Brendon encounter women from all walks of life. Everyone has a story, and that’s what makes life colorful. There can be a multitude of reasons why a woman calls on him, but some of his most touching experiences come when helping a widow learn to start over.
It can be the biggest challenge a person can ever face. How do you move on with life (and love) after the loss of a spouse? Even if it’s expected, the death of a partner is a shocking heartbreak [...]
Weathering the stages of grief — denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance — and building a new life without your loved one there will seem impossible at first. However, one day you will feel the will to live fully again, and even feel the need to experience companionship again. You will be intimidated at first, of course. It’s hard to throw yourself back in the dating game after 20 or 30 years or more, and the dating game has changed significantly during that time.
This is where Brendon Companion can help. An elite male escort, sensitive, caring, protective and trustworthy. What better way to practice getting out into the world again safely and figuring out just how you want to build your new life. With a gentlemen who will be supportive, patient and kind in allowing you to set the pace of this journey.
There are some beneficial steps that can help you take in trying to maintain a healthy, loving sense of connection with your deceased spouse, and at the same time, engage in living in the present, and allowing your life to flourish. Best of all, Brendon will help you on this journey in a safe, protective, non-judgmental environment with no pressure whatsoever.
- Release the guilt. Your partner would want you to be happy again, so get rid of the thought that you are somehow “betraying” him by seeing someone new. You can cherish your old relationship, without letting it sabotage your prospects for a new one. These feelings need to be resolved before fully jumping back into dating again. Brendon offer a pressure-free environment to experience the simple pleasure of just getting out again.
- Your label is not your story. You are not merely a widow; you are a person with opinions, hobbies, preferences, accomplishments, social values, political views and a unique way of looking at the world. Brendon can help you practice how to present your authentic self, selectively choosing which attributes you would share initially and which are best kept private until you better know a person. He can also help you develop a balance between reminiscing about your old life while trying to pursue a new one.
- Define your needs and desires. It is important to take time to think about the type of new bond you’d like to establish. You may long to clone your lost love, but it’s highly unlikely you would meet someone exactly like your spouse. And let’s face it, would you really want to? The person you met at age 25 changed over a lifetime, and so did you. While the picture of the future may have shattered, you have the opportunity to paint a new picture on the blank slate staring at you. Perhaps you’re ready to see the world and want to find someone who shares your desire to travel. Or maybe your partner’s allergies compelled you to live without pets, and now you’re ready to pair up with a fellow dog lover. From a relationship perspective, it is important to determine what you need and want now: a companion to attend events, a partner, or a new spouse. Brendon can help you, be honest about your needs and wants and grant yourself the freedom to gravitate to a whole new kind of person.
- Take stock and reinvent. If you’ve become a bit, ummm, casual in the weight, wardrobe or grooming departments, now is the time to kick your game up a notch. Brendon know healthy eating, fitness and style exceptionally well and can advise as needed.
- Practice making a connection. Most people initially rely on close friends for introductions, and that may be a good start; however, the circle of close friends is limited. Research shows that many opportunities come through “weak ties,” or people we know mostly in passing: hairdresser, chiropractor, a neighbor’s visiting sister, even your seatmate on a flight! Practice your approach with Brendon first, so that you’re ready when the time comes.
It's understood it is a difficult time filled with varying emotions, and Brendon is here to help make the transition easier by being caring, supportive, and attentive. His job is your happiness, so give him a call when you feel ready, because only you know when the time is right.
